Just because someone says they are sorry, does not mean they truly are.  Generally repeat offenders are not sincere about their apologies.  I may come off as a mean cold hearted bitch but that is only because I am tired of dealing with the pure bullshit that comes with having friends.  I decided to put my guard up and weed out a few people that I did not consider true friends and now am thought of as a bitch.  I don't mind much.  I have my close friends that I enjoy being around.  One person can only have so many friends.  If yo have too many, then how will you have enough time for them all?  My point is that I too have feelings and being called fat and frumpy and lacking the ability to take care of myself is not good for the soul.  Yes I have put on a few pounds and yes I LOVE me my jeans and baseball cap on the weekends!  You know why I love my jeans and baseball cap?  I get up at 3:45 am Monday thru Friday so that I can be to work at 6 am in Costa Mesa.  That's right.  I have an hour + commute each and every day.  I will usually put on make up for work and of course dress in business attire.  With that said,come the weekends I want to be comfy and casual.  That does not make me fat or care less about who I am.  It means I want to spend my free time with my family and not worrying so much about what I look like.  It is all about quality time with the family.